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What to Do When English Sounds Too Fast

English With Lily & Tommy

👋 Welcome to English With Lily & Tommy! Join us in this friendly episode made to help you build real listening confidence.

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What to Do When English Sounds Too Fast

English With Lily & Tommy

👋 Welcome to English With Lily & Tommy! Join us in this friendly episode made to help you build real listening confidence.

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Does English sound way too fast when people speak to you?
You are not alone, and it is not your fault.
By the end of this episode, you will know exactly what to say to slow the conversation down.
Welcome to English With Lily & Tommy.
I am Lily.
And I am Tommy.
Hello, everyone.
Tommy, something happened to me this week at my neighborhood coffee shop.
The person in front of me ordered so quickly that the cashier looked totally lost.
Really?
Even the cashier did not catch what they said?
Not a single word at first.
The customer had to say the order again, much more slowly, and then everything was fine.
That happens to me all the time when native speakers talk.
I hear a river of words, and I feel like I am falling behind.
That is why we are here today.
We have six clear steps to help you understand fast English, stay calm, and know what to say.
I need all six of those steps.
I am so ready to learn this.
Before we begin step one, please like this video and subscribe to the channel.
It really helps other learners find our friendly show.
And remember, you can find free lessons and practice at www.nativas.app to build your English skills every day.
It is a wonderful place to build your confidence.
Now, let us look at our very first step.
Why does English sound so fast to beginners?
Is it because people speak quickly, or is something else happening?
Most of the time, people are not speaking quickly on purpose.
In English, native speakers connect words together instead of saying every word by itself.
They connect words together?
What does that mean?
Instead of stopping between words, the end of one word slides into the next word.
For example, people rarely say "do you" with a pause.
They say "dyou."
They say "dyou"?
Wow, that sounds like one single word instead of two words.
Exactly.
Here is another common one: people rarely say "want to" clearly.
They say "wanna."
I hear that all the time in songs and movies. "want to" turns into "wanna."
Yes, it does.
So when you hear three or four connected words, your brain tries to find the breaks, and it feels too fast.
That makes total sense.
I thought my ears were just slow, but the words are literally joined together.
Let us try a tiny scene.
Listen to this sentence: "Dyou wanna go?"
What two pairs of words did you hear?
You said "dyou" for "do you", and "wanna" for "want to".
That means: do you want to go?
Spot on, Tommy!
You see, your ears can learn these connected sounds with a little practice.
That makes me feel so much better.
It is not speed, it is connected speech.
Now let us talk about what happens in your body when English sounds too fast.
Tommy, what is the first feeling you get?
Honestly, I feel a wave of panic.
My heart beats faster, and I freeze because I cannot catch the words.
That is completely normal.
We talked about this in our episode "How to Talk About Your Feelings in English."
When panic starts, your brain stops listening.
That is so true.
The moment I panic, I miss the next five words.
How do I stop that?
Take a slow breath and say a quiet phrase in your mind.
Say: "This is okay."
"This is okay."
That sounds so gentle and simple.
Does it really work?
It really does.
When you tell yourself "This is okay," your shoulders drop, your brain relaxes, and your ears open back up.
Let us test it.
Imagine someone walks up to me and speaks really fast.
What should I do first?
Do not panic.
Breathe in, tell yourself "This is okay," and stay calm.
You do not have to understand every single sound right away.
I like that.
Taking a breath gives me control back.
"This is okay" will be my secret mental tool.
A calm learner always hears more than a nervous learner.
Be kind to yourself in those fast moments.
I will remember that.
When words fly fast, breathe and say: "This is okay."
Now that you are calm, what do you say out loud?
You need real phrases to slow the other person down.
I usually just smile, nod, and pretend I understood.
But then I have no idea what they said.
A lot of people do that!
Instead, use this polite phrase: "Could you speak more slowly, please?"
"Could you speak more slowly, please?"
That is very polite.
Let me try it again: "Could you speak more slowly, please?"
Beautiful pronunciation.
And if you missed the whole sentence, you can say: "Sorry, can you say that again?"
"Sorry, can you say that again?"
That is short and very natural.
I hear native speakers say that too.
They say it all the time.
Native speakers ask each other to repeat things every single day.
Sometimes I worry the other person will get annoyed with me.
Is it embarrassing to ask?
Not at all.
People love to help.
When you ask politely, people are happy to slow down so you can connect.
Let us do a role play.
Lily, talk to me fast like a busy clerk, and I will use my phrase.
Hey there, how are you doing today, what can I get started for you?
Excuse me, "could you speak more slowly, please?"
Of course!
What can I get for you today?
That felt amazing!
Asking someone "could you speak more slowly, please?"
was not scary at all.
You did it with a warm smile, and it worked.
You can also use "Sorry, can you say that again?"
whenever you need it.
What about practicing when we are alone at home?
How do we get our ears ready for fast conversations?
The secret is daily listening.
Your brain needs to hear English sounds every day, not just once a week.
Does it need to be hours of studying?
Because on busy days, I do not have two hours.
Not at all!
Five or ten minutes of listening every single day is much better than two hours on Sunday.
What kind of daily practice works best when English sounds too fast?
I practice English and other languages on nativas.app every day.
With a free account, you learn fifteen new flashcards a day with audio, and it is completely free to use.
That daily habit makes fast speech easier to understand.
Fifteen new flashcards a day with audio sounds very manageable.
It trains your ears without making your brain tired.
Exactly.
Listening to short audio clips trains your ear muscles.
Over time, your brain recognizes words much faster.
I love thinking of my ears having muscles.
A little training every day makes them strong.
Just like lifting weights.
Consistent, short listening sessions will turn fast noise into clear words.
What about watching movies, shows, or videos online?
Should beginners watch with subtitles or turn them off?
Subtitles are a wonderful tool, but you have to use them the right way.
Always turn on English subtitles, never subtitles in your native language.
Why is that?
When I read my native language, it feels so much easier.
When you read your native language, your brain only reads and forgets to listen.
With English subtitles, your eyes connect the written word to the spoken sound.
Oh, so when a character says "wanna", my eyes see "want to", and my brain connects the two!
Precisely!
Here is a great two-step method: pick a short clip of two minutes.
Watch it once with English subtitles to understand the story.
Okay, two minutes with English subtitles.
What is the second step?
Watch the exact same clip again, but turn the subtitles off.
You already know the story, so your ears can focus completely on the sounds.
That is such a smart technique.
The first time gives me the meaning, and the second time trains my ears.
And because the clip is only two minutes long, you never feel overwhelmed.
English subtitles first, then no subtitles at all.
I can easily do that with my favorite videos.
Try it with short scenes you enjoy.
You will be shocked by how much more you catch the second time.
What should I do during a real conversation when I still cannot understand every single word?
Here is the golden rule: you do not need to understand every single word.
Focus on the key words.
What are key words?
How do I know which words are the key words?
Key words are the heavy words that carry meaning: nouns, main action verbs, times, and places.
Small connecting words like at, the, or to are not as important.
Can you give me an example sentence to show me what you mean?
Listen to this example: I will meet you at the bus station at five o'clock.
Which words jump out at you?
I hear meet, bus station, and five o'clock.
Those three pieces give me the whole picture.
Exactly!
You missed the small words like I will and at the, but you know the time, place, and action.
Let us try another one.
Say something quickly, and I will try to grab only the key words.
Do you want to grab coffee or tea before work tomorrow?
I heard coffee, tea, before work, and tomorrow.
You are asking what I want to drink before work tomorrow!
You got the full message!
When you let go of catching every tiny word, your listening stress disappears.
That takes so much pressure off my shoulders.
I just need to catch the key words.
Let us review our six steps quickly.
Chapter one: native speakers connect words, so speech sounds fast.
Chapter two: stay calm, take a slow breath, and tell yourself "This is okay."
Chapter three: ask people to slow down by saying "Could you speak more slowly, please?"
Or ask: "Sorry, can you say that again?"
Chapter four: listen a little bit every day to build your ear muscles.
Chapter five: watch short clips with English subtitles first, then watch again without subtitles.
Chapter six: focus on the key words and let the small connecting words go.
These six steps give me a clear plan whenever English feels too fast.
Here is our thought for today: Every day you listen is a day your ears get a little stronger.
And here is your twenty-four-hour challenge: pick one two-minute video today, watch it once with English subtitles, and watch it a second time with no subtitles.
I accept the challenge!
I am going to find a short cooking video and try it this evening.
Have fun with it.
And remember my story about the fast coffee customer: even native speakers need people to slow down sometimes.
We want to hear from you.
In the comments below, tell us: when English sounds too fast, what do you usually do?
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Thank you so much for learning with us today.
You are doing great.
Keep practicing, stay calm, and see you in the next conversation.

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